drinking wine during weekdays a lot lately
when something is bothering a guy and they keep denying something is wrong… why? girls can tell that shit; it’s one of our many superpowers. i understand girls all the time are like “nothing. i’m fine.” when it isn’t nothing and they’re not fine and they just want you to care enough to not give up and keep asking so we realize you actually care and it isn’t just some social nicety you’re acting out simply to get out of the way. but i will ask and call you out when i know something is wrong, so why are you lying? i know it’s probably really fucking annoying for a guy (or girl for that matter) when someone gets in their face and demands them to face their emotions/fears/whatever, but it’s only because i care too much to just give up when you give me some bullshit response and let you think that i don’t really care. this little dance guys do to avoid a sincere, possibly emotional conversation would be over a lot sooner if you just answered the fucking question and opened up a little. the whole “guys aren’t supposed to be emotional” thing is not only really fucking stupid but is the biggest, most cowardly cop out of all time. it takes unimaginable courage to let yourself feel something and to let others feel it with you.